Domestic Abuse

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Life is very beautiful.You should live it with no regrets but all this seems good in books.In reality it is ironic to see people in misery. Misery can be different types:

Poverty 

Madressa and molvi

Unemployment 

Inequal distribution of wealth 

Absence of fairplay

Injustice

Poor heath facility 

Women dependency 

Domestic violence 

Child molestation 

And there are so many uncountable factors that inflict pain and misery.

In pakistan domestic violence is the issue which really needs attention.Women keep on suffering for sake of family's dignity.Majority of the cases are not reported in our country.A few month ago I saw a heart wrenching  video inwhich a young man was beating his mother.women is a victim either she is daughter,wife or mother.She is physically abused.She is verbally abused.A few days back a young girl who was mother of 3 kids was beaten to death by her husband.I asked them why don't they report to police.I was told that they are extremely poor and can't follow.

I have uncountable stories even some celebrities suffered as well.Money and education have not much role to play.Its mind set which needs counciling.A couple of days back komal Rizvi shared her miserable story in the morning show.

Its not the woman who alone suffers but the children who are biggest sufferers. They may develop mental health problems. Parental disputes negatively affect their growth. 

Due to abuse and mental trauma women may develop severe depression and some of them commit suicide.

Mother and children both feel powerless in a place where they should be safe and protected. 

Remedy

I think serious legislation is required to address it.Prople will not stop until and unless not punished

I suggest an other remedy which is very crucial for woman is their empowerment .If there financially stable they can have resources to fight against that man.

Women should ne given their due rights.

Napoleon Bonaparte said,

"Give me good mothers and i shall give you a great nation!" 

So if we want to see pakistan as prosperous and developed country then we ll have to invest in our mothers,daughters and sisters.This is the only way to overcome domestic issues and backward mindset.They will give us Muhamood of Ghazna,Ertugal and Sir Syed Ahmed Khan Inshallah. 


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